Articles on Feminine Power,
Sexuality, Spirituality & More
Sexuality, Spirituality & More
What's Your Sexy?
What's your sexy, is a question that I like to ask women of all ages. I often wonder if living in the world that we do confuses women and girls as to what being a sexually empowered woman is all about. What if you could just stop for a moment and begin to ask yourself what does it mean for me to be truly sexually empowered? I wonder what your answer might be.
For some, it may mean how they express themselves in the bedroom and the different flavors of energy that you express in a particular way. For others, there might be a much broader definition. such as what turns you on at any given moment. So it could be writing a blog, or dancing or being in nature or anything that is using your creative energy. Sex, of course, is part of that but it is not exclusive to that.
The New Standards of the Hook-up Generation
The hook-up culture today has morphed into an "anything goes" culture. Sexual identification has become more blurred and so sexual preferences are not so rigid as they once were.
The new standard for women in their twenties seems to be embracing the "zipless fuck" of the women's lib generation, sex just for the pleasure of it. Nothing else is required or needed. Just sex for the sake of getting off. Romantic relationships aren't as important as they once were, falling in love a bit passe. But is this a good thing? I have heard women say that since men have always been the ones to love'm and leave'm that now it is their time to do the same. The table has turned and more and more young women are embracing the idea that sex is no more than a physical relationship of mutual pleasure.
If this is the new norm for our youth and for the millennials, I feel concerned that they will lose something very valuable...which is how to create and experience what it means to be an authentically powerful, sexually aware and savvy woman. A woman who embodies all of the qualities of her innate feminine qualities and her feminine sexual essence. This term was originally introduced to me by David Deida. I am adding to it and in some ways expanding his definition here.
Your Feminine Sexual Essence is:
It seems that these women have no context from which to live from and nothing to feel connected to that can show them how to embody these qualities, and that will also assist them in understanding what true feminine sexual power is.
Being willing to explore your feminine sexual power, to learn how to understand it, how to use it with integrity, how to embody it with grace and how to begin to own what I call your Sexual Presence is what I am here to offer.
Don't you think it is time to be the change that we are all seeking to happen in our world? Rather than go back to trying to mimic how men have treated women for centuries I am suggesting that we reconnect with in our authentic feminine power and begin to establish a new way, a new paradigm for all women and girls to grow into.
Who is Lilith and what does she have to say to us at this time? What is her gift to you and to womankind?
To answer these questions, I need to share first more about Lilith as an archetype of the Original Woman something that is not often shared.
Lilith as an archetype is a template for women to use so that we can reconnect with our essential feminine power.
As a part of my teachings, Lilith is more than just the demonic seductress that she is often depicted as. She holds the key to our very essential nature as a woman. This information has been hidden for thousands of years and is now ready to be revealed to womankind through the teachings of The Priestess of the Flame Training based on my lineage as a Keeper of the Flame.
What Does Lilith Represent?
"Lilith is the true ancestress of humankind; She is the eternal root of the Sacred Feminine from humankind’s spiritual genesis, she symbolizes the archetypal role women once held. Lilith is the triune goddess, snake, bird and Tree of Life. She is the Alpha and Omega of everywoman's journey."~ Lilith, Keeper of the Flame.
Lilith is not only the representation of the primordial feminine energy, the raw passion and independent spirit of a woman, but she far more importantly is the aspect of a woman that knows herself to be a holy and sacred vessel of the creative power of the universe. She is the original sexual initiatress.
"Lilith immortalizes the memory of a woman’s true sexual nature that originated from the primordial Garden. She represents the undivided transgender state of unitary wholeness and the sexual practices taught to convey their memory to others." ~ Lilith Keeper of the Flame.
The Power of Our Sexual Nature
The true power of our feminine sexual nature has been corrupted so that we have forgotten our rightful place as the sexual initiatresses that we are. This role is very important because the use of our sexual energy it is a gateway to the restoration of the Divine Feminine Energy.
Our sexual energy when used with a sacred clear intent brings harmony and balance back into our own life and relationships as well as into the world.
It has only been through making women's sexual power something to fear that sex and women's bodies have become profane, a commodity, entertainment, something to be bought and sold and violence against women normalized.
Now more than at any other time in our history we have the opportunity to change these messages. The time has come for womankind to take a stand for a new way of being with their sexual power. This will begin to establish a new paradigm for us all and free us from the patriarchal controls we have adhered to for over 5,000 years.
You can begin to reconnect yourself as the Sexual Initiatress and the archetype of Lilith by:
We must reconnect with our internal Lilith and her teachings that so needed at this time for all women and girls. integrated, fully sovereign and free woman. Connected to her authentic feminine sexual power and an expression of the New Divine Feminine energy.