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These Are the Times That Are Calling Us to Wake Up These are the times that are forcing us to take stock of everything that has been holding us back from fully stepping into our true selves. What does this mean? Well, I can share what it means for me. Each day, before I leave the house, I do whatever it takes to make sure my vibration is steady and high enough to keep my emotional body even. I make sure I am relaxed, grounded, and trusting in the Force, the Unified Field, or Divine Intelligence, whatever name you choose to give it. Even though I have been on my own spiritual journey for decades, I too have felt this very intense corridor of time that we are currently moving through. This is often referred to as the season of Eclipses, and we have also just come through the Lions Gate portal. What does all of this mean? It means that, in one way or another, we are all being challenged to wake up to our true selves. You hear these words everywhere now. On YouTube, in songs, in social media posts, in conversations, everywhere there seems to be a message saying, It is time to wake up. But what does that actually mean? The answer is different for everyone. And there are, in fact, different stages and layers to the process of awakening. For some, awakening is primarily a spiritual journey, a deeper understanding of themselves, their connection to Source, and their purpose. Others are just beginning to understand the depth of the cover-up and deception that has been perpetrated by those in positions of power and influence. And then there are those who have gone much deeper down the rabbit hole and are now beginning to recognize themselves as something much greater than they were taught to believe, perhaps even stepping forward into an understanding of themselves as galactic citizens. Then there are those, like myself, who have moved through all three of these stages and are now focusing less on what is wrong with the old world and more on creating the world we actually want to live in. The Times We Are Living InThe times we are living in are forcing us to shed the old self, the old idea of who we thought we were, and even many of the values we carried that belonged to the old world. We are watching that old world begin to fall apart. And perhaps one of the most difficult realizations is recognizing that much of what we were told about that world was never exactly what it appeared to be. In many ways, it was a house of mirrors, a reality built around reflections, illusions, and carefully constructed perceptions. This can be challenging for many of us, even for people like myself who have been on this path of awakening for many years. I am sharing this with you so that you can take heart. If you recognize yourself in any of the stages I have described, you are not alone. You are exactly where you need to be.You don't have to have all the answers. You don't have to understand everything that is happening. And you certainly don't need to follow someone else's timeline for awakening.matters is that you continue to listen to your own inner knowing. And most importantly, don't allow yourself to succumb to the false narratives that are still playing out around us, or to the fear being continually amplified through the news and media. Much of the media is still operating through the old paradigm of fear, separation, confusion, and distraction. It can pull you out of yourself and away from your own knowing if you allow it to. This is why I have become so intentional about maintaining my own vibration. Not because I am immune to what is happening in the world. I am not. I feel it too. But I have learned that I have a choice about where I place my attention, what I allow into my emotional field, and what energy I choose to carry into the world. For me, awakening is no longer about simply seeing what is wrong. It is about becoming so deeply connected to who I truly am that I can consciously participate in creating what comes next. And perhaps that is the deeper invitation being offered to all of us right now: Not simply to wake up to what has been, but to wake up to what we are capable of creating. Hold Your Ground This is what I feel is one of the most important things you can do at this time, stay focused on what you wish to create. You may have read some of my earlier blogs where I have talked about the idea of a timeline split, that we are moving toward a time when different versions of reality may exist simultaneously, rather than everyone moving forward along the same path. There is one timeline in particular that I feel at times seems to be encroaching on our lives in many ways, the dystopian timeline. A world where technology becomes more powerful than the human being, where our choices are increasingly made for us, and where we slowly surrender our autonomy in exchange for convenience, security, or the promise that something else will make our lives easier. And yet, even in the face of all of this, I believe the choice is clear. You are being asked not to be fooled by the promises of what AI will do for you. You are being asked not to give your power away to a machine, to another government, to an institution, or to anything outside of yourself. This does not mean that we have to fear technology or reject everything that is changing. It means that we must remain conscious of who is making the choices. Are you? Or are you slowly allowing someone, or something else, to make them for you? This is where sovereignty becomes so important. To me, sovereignty means holding your ground. It means staying connected to your own discernment, your own inner knowing, your own ability to think, feel, question, choose, and create. It means refusing to surrender your authority simply because something is more convenient, more powerful, or presented as inevitable. And perhaps this is the deeper meaning of awakening. It isn't simply about discovering hidden information. It isn't about uncovering every deception or figuring out exactly what is happening behind the scenes. Ultimately, awakening asks us to come back to ourselves.
This is where I believe our real power lies. We don't have to know exactly how everything is going to unfold. We don't have to have all the answers. We simply have to stay awake enough to recognize when we are being pulled back into fear, separation, and powerlessness, and consciously choose something else. Choose sovereignty. Choose consciousness. Choose love. Choose creation over destruction. Choose the world you want to help bring into being. Because perhaps the greatest awakening of all is realizing that we are not simply here to witness the next chapter of humanity. We are here to participate in creating it. And that is why, especially now, I am choosing to keep my eyes on what I want to create. Not because I don't see what is happening. I do. But because I know that the future I want to live in requires my energy, my attention, my courage, and my conscious participation. And I believe the same is true for you. So ask yourself: • What kind of world do I want to live in? • What kind of person do I want to become? • Where am I still giving my power away? • What am I allowing to occupy my emotional and energetic field? • What am I choosing to create with my attention? These are the questions I believe are worth asking right now. The question is no longer simply,“Are you awake?” The question is: "What are you going to do with your awakening?"
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The story of womanhood has been told — but not by women. Men have defined what it means to be feminine, to be beautiful, to be sexual. They crafted an image of womanhood that served their power, not our truth. Over generations, these distorted ideals became embedded into our culture, our religions, our schools — and even into our own self-perceptions. This rewriting began during the early Bronze and Iron Ages, when the Great Mother Goddess — once revered as the source of all life — was systematically erased. As patriarchal religions rose, they replaced the feminine divine with a singular masculine god: a god of war, control, and authority. It was not merely spiritual—it was political. By stripping women of their connection to creation, sensuality, and self-sovereignty, those in power could more easily dominate and manipulate society. If you take away a woman's sexual power, her body, and her voice, you control the future. Over time, the Divine Feminine was turned into something dangerous. Women's bodies became symbols of temptation. Our emotions were dismissed as hysterical. Our sensuality became taboo. Shame replaced sacredness. But we’ve been taught to fear it. To reject it. To deny it in ourselves and in each other. This wasn’t just about individual women — it was about dismantling a whole frequency of feminine life force energy: Shakti. That energy lives in your body. It lives in your womb. It lives in your truth. But we’ve been taught to fear it. To reject it. To deny it in ourselves and in each other. Even today, women are taught — overtly and subtly — to use their sexuality as a commodity. To sell it for attention, love, or material security. Media still tells us that our worth is based on our sexual appeal to men. And although we’ve made progress in recent decades, the deeper paradigm hasn't changed. The male-dominated power structure still echoes through our lives. So what do we do now? We rise — not in opposition, but in remembrance. We return to the truth that has always lived inside us. We reclaim what was never meant to be taken. The time has come to awaken to your authentic feminine power — and to embody it in a completely new way. This new paradigm of sacred feminine power begins with you. When you rise, when you heal, when you love yourself — it sends waves through the collective. You become a living ley line of the feminine grid. You anchor the New Earth with every breath, every truth, every sacred "yes" to yourself. The truth is: The New Earth is already here. But to live in it, you must raise your vibration and embody the new feminine frequency. You must become the woman you were born to be — not the one the world told you to become. I invite you to join me and a growing sisterhood of awakening women. Receive your FREE Living Goddess Guide: Redefining Your Erotic Sense of Self — and begin your journey home to your body, your power, and your sacred pleasure, and together, we will rise. With love, Luminessa Enjara For Thousands of years, the story of womanhood has been written and distorted by men. They defined what it meant to be feminine. They decided what made a woman “sexy,” “acceptable,” or “pure.” They projected their desires onto us, then wrapped those projections in religion, education, and culture until we began to believe them as our own. But make no mistake: this version of womanhood was never ours. This distortion began long ago, in the story of Genesis and during the rise of the Bronze and Iron Ages. The reverence for the Great Mother—the ancient feminine force of creation, intuition, and life—was slowly replaced by a masculine god of war, control, and conquest. The true story of Lilith as the First Woman was replaced by a more subservient Eve, and with that shift came the quiet erasure of the feminines rightful power—her sexual power. From ancient scriptures to school books, from pulpits to pop culture, we've been conditioned to believe that owning our sexual power makes us dangerous, unworthy, or unlovable. We’ve been taught to fear the very thing that makes us divine. Women who dared to embody their sensual, sovereign selves were labeled immoral, wild, inappropriate—even punished. And for many of us, even now, those inherited beliefs still live quietly inside. They show up in the mirror, in the bedroom, in our choices about our bodies, desires, and voices. Herstory Was Rewritten The sacred feminine was stripped from the collective memory. And in her place, a story was born that made women forget who they truly are. Why? Because a woman in her full power—sensual, sexually sovereign, embodied—is unstoppable, and that kind of woman cannot be controlled. When you separate a woman from her sexual energy, her innate, primal, authentic power, you separate her from her life force. When you shame her body, you disempower her voice. When you teach her that her value lies in how men see her and in her sexuality, you break her connection to the divine within. This was never random. This was never accidental.This was a system of control, and it’s still working today. You might think things are different now. I’m not affected by those old beliefs. But the truth is: we all are. You may think: That’s not me. I’m empowered. I’m free. But we’ve all been touched by it. It's in the collective air we breathe. And while some laws have changed, we are still living in a rape culture and the system that devalues the feminine still thrives. Even now, the collective energy around us is infused with ancient conditioning. Even now, women are taught to use their sexuality as currency—to secure attention, affection, and security.Even now, your voice is often second-guessed. Your power is still threatening. Your body is still politicized and sexualized. So Here is the Invitation: - Not to be afraid. But to remember. - To reclaim and reconnect with the fullness of your sexual power. - To rise in this new frequency of the feminine. The time has come for a new frequency of the feminine to emerge within you. It’s time to activate your authentic feminine power within your heart, mind, and body. Within your sacred portal or vulva, womb. To release the shame, fear, lack of self-worth — the version that was shaped to please others, seduce, or survive. The time has come for you to know who you truly are. To be the sexually sovereign woman that your ancestress Lilith the First Woman was and still is. So How Do You Begin? Here Are a Few Suggestions. 1. Reclaim your body as sacred. Start with the place they told you was shameful—your vulva, yoni, punani, pussy. This is your sacred portal, your center of creation, your connection to divine wisdom. Honor it. Bless it. Speak its name with reverence. Reconnect with Her. 2. Create rituals of body love. Draw a bath with candles and essential oils. Gaze at yourself in the mirror and speak praise over your body. Anoint your skin with love. Touch yourself with gentleness and awe. You are not just worthy—you are holy. 3. Meet one of the true feminine archetypes. Study Lilith and reconnect with her lineage—not the demonized version, but the sovereign first woman, who refused submission and embodied divine sexual power. Let her story awaken something wild and free in your soul. She is a guide for what’s possible when we stop asking for permission and apologizing for being a woman. 4. Use your voice. Ask for what you want. Speak your truth—even if it shakes at first. Start small. Practice often. Grow bolder. Especially in your intimate relationships, where voice and vulnerability are key. This is not just a call for empowerment—it’s a sacred remembering. A return to your deepest self. A breaking of the spell that was cast so long ago. You were never meant to shrink, hide, or apologize for being a woman. You were meant to lead, love, and live fully alive and awake. The new frequency of the feminine is rising—and it's unstoppable. Together, we have the power to awaken, reclaim what was once hidden, and anchor this sacred energy into a new paradigm for women, and for the world. You are not just witnessing the shift. You are the shift. If you choose to use your voice, love your body, and speak your truth you will help reshape the future for you, your daughters, and their daughters. Now is the time. Will you answer the call? If you are ready to take the next step you can contact me directly at [email protected] or download my Living Goddess Guide if you haven't already. I have delineated five basic aspects of the goddesses of love and sexuality. They are love and beauty, or the Goddess of Love, Sensuality and Beauty, the instinctual feminine, or the Primal Goddess, the Sexual Initiatress who encompasses both the sexual healer and sacred Courtesan. These aspects represent our sexual expression in a variety of roles. In our modern world, women are still greatly influenced by the images of women in the media that they see. We only see one or two aspects that are often very limited in how they portray women and women's sexual empowerment. Women often fear, hide, are ashamed, or exploit their sexual power. Even if they don't know that they are doing so. Very few women fully understand what their authentic feminine power is and how to use it. We don't know how to embody it. When images of the feminine are distorted to fit a particular cultural standard that has been defined by patriarchal standards of femininity, we forget what it feels like to be whole, sexually empowered and integrated with all aspects of our sexual expression. We forget how to stand strong, feel beautiful, confident, safe in our bodies and be in control of our sexual energy. What I have come to realize is that all women have all of these aspects of the goddess of love within them, and we need to integrate all of them; to learn how to be comfortable with each aspect so that we can feel whole, sovereign, and free to express all of our sexual roles and yet not be defined by them. . Embracing the Goddesses of Love in You The first thing is to begin to understand who these images of the feminine are to you personally is to take the time to find out who you most identify with. Ask yourself these questions:
For the most part, women have been forced to use their sexuality to survive. We see throughout history that women’s sexual power has been feared, her body a symbol of life and the power to create was made to seem evil, something that tempted men away from the divine. Through getting to know the various archetypes of the goddess which represent feminine sexuality and love we can begin to learn more about ourselves and our sexual expression. We can also begin to embody more of the qualities we wish to express. If you would like to become more comfortable with and integrate all of aspects of your sexual expression via these archetypes of the Goddess of Love please get my Living Goddess Guide, Redefining Your Erotic Sense of Self. You will not only recieve my guide but also my personal workbook of What's Your Sexy, Which Goddess of Love Are You. Click Below for Your Guide.
Who is Lilith and what does she have to say to women at this time? What is her gift to you and to womankind? To answer these questions, I need to share first more about Lilith as an archetype of the Original First Woman something that is not often known. Lilith as an archetype is a template for women to use so that we can reconnect with our essential feminine power. As a part of my teachings, Lilith is more than just the demonic seductress that she is often depicted as. She holds the key to our very essential nature as a woman. This information has been hidden for thousands of years and is now ready to be revealed to women through the teachings of The Priestess of the Flame Training based on my lineage as a Keeper of the Flame. What Does Lilith Represent? "Lilith is the true ancestress of humankind; She is the eternal root of the Sacred Feminine from humankind’s spiritual genesis, she symbolizes the archetypal role women once held. Lilith is the triune goddess, snake, bird, and Tree of Life. She is the Alpha and Omega of everywoman's journey."~ Lilith, Keeper of the Flame. Lilith is not only the representation of the primordial feminine energy, the raw passion and independent spirit of a woman but she far, more importantly, is the aspect of a woman that knows herself to be a holy and sacred vessel of the creative power of the universe. She is the original sexual initiatress. "Lilith immortalizes the memory of a woman’s true sexual nature that originated from the primordial Garden. She represents the undivided transgender state of unitary wholeness and the sexual practices taught to convey their memory to others." ~ Lilith Keeper of the Flame. The Power of Our Sexual Nature The true power of our feminine sexual nature has been corrupted so that we have forgotten our rightful place as the sexual initiatress that we are. This role is very important because the use of our sexual energy is a gateway to the restoration of the Divine Feminine Energy. Our sexual energy when used with a sacred clear intent brings harmony and balance back into our own lives and relationships as well as into the world. It has only been through making women's sexual power something to fear that sex and women's bodies have become profane, a commodity, entertainment, something to be bought and sold, and violence against women normalized. Now more than at any other time in our history we have the opportunity to change these messages. The time has come for womankind to take a stand for a new way of being with their sexual power. This will begin to establish a new paradigm for us all and free us from the patriarchal controls we have adhered to for over 5,000 years. You can begin to reconnect yourself as the Sexual Initiatress and the archetype of Lilith by:
We must reconnect with our internal Lilith and her teachings that are so needed at this time for all women and girls. When you do you will begin to become a more fully integrated, sovereign, and sexually conscious woman who is committed to being an anchor of the New Divine Feminine Energy and helping to establish a new paradigm for women's sexuality. Which aspect of the Goddess of Love and Sexuality do you most identify with? Is it Aphrodite, goddess of love, beauty, and sensuality? Or perhaps Shakti, the Primal Goddess of creation, the life force? Or do you see yourself more as a Sacred Courtesan or a Sexual Healer? The Goddess of love and sexuality has many names and aspects. She represents a side of the Divine Feminine that depicts women’s sensual and sexual nature as well as their abilities to heal and transmute sexual energy. These goddess archetypes have often been seen from a very narrow point of view based on the time that they were created in. The mythology of any culture always reflects the values of that culture and so do the pantheon of gods and goddesses that are created. What was once said about Aphrodite in Greek society is not necessarily what she represents for modern women today. Archetypes must change and reflect the current the age that they live in. An archetype is a universally understood symbol, term, statement, or pattern of behavior, a prototype upon which others are copied, patterned, or emulated. Four Archetypes of the Goddesses of Love and Sexuality I have delineated three basic archetypes of the Goddesses of Love and Sexuality: the Goddess of Beauty and Sensuality, the Primal Goddess, and the Sacred Courtesan or Sexual Healer. Of course, each of these archetypes has many different names, some of which are, for the Goddess of Love, Aphrodite, Venus, Innana and Oshun; Lilith, Shakti, Pele and Brigit for the Primal Goddess; Ishtar and Astarte for the Sacred Prostitute/Courtesan and Sexual Healers. Embracing the Goddess of Love and Sexuality in You In our modern world how women are seen is still greatly influenced by these images of the feminine. Although most women do not know this, they too have allowed themselves to be seen and to see themselves through the lens of one or more of these archetypes. We fear, hide, are ashamed, or exploit our sexual power. Very few women fully use and embody their authentic feminine power, standing in their feminine strength, love, beauty, intelligence, grace, and sexuality. When we do, we take the apology out of being a woman. What I have come to realize is that women need to embrace all of these aspects of themselves if they truly wish to feel whole, integrated and stand in their full authentic feminine power. This includes learning how to use their sexual power not to survive but to thrive. To change the current paradigm which is thousands of years old and by which we still live. Understanding how to be and use this magnificent power is key if we wish to create a world where women are safe to be women and where we can live in partnership with men How You Can Do This? The first thing is to begin to understand who these images of the feminine are to you personally is to take the time to find out who you most identify with. Ask yourself these questions:
Through getting to know the various archetypes of the goddess which represent feminine sexuality and love you can begin to learn more about yourself and our sexual expression. We can also begin to embody more of the qualities we wish to express. Through getting to know those aspects you wish to embrace, you will have a better understanding of your own nature. By practicing ritual, creating an altar and invoking the energy of that aspect to be with you, you will begin to own more of the wholeness of your feminine nature, as a sexually powerful woman. We can also begin to explore what new archetypes of the goddess of love and sexuality we wish to create for a new world that is no longer afraid of the feminine, but rather honors, reveres and celebrates her power. If you are ready to explore more of these aspectsn yurself please join us in the What's Your Sexy playshop on April 27th. |
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