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Below you will find a variety of resources that you can use to enrich your own lists, expand your own tool kit of practices as well as support loving yourself.
Below you will find a variety of resources that you can use to enrich your own lists, expand your own tool kit of practices as well as support loving yourself.
The Five Fold Kiss a Blessing for the Body
- Our bodies long to be blessed, received, adored. We long for safety and connection. Being blessed is the opposite of trauma.
- Always ask for consent before each kiss. May I kiss your _____. Let me know when. To Prepare:
- Lengthen your breath. Feel your feet. Clear your mind. Open your heart. Slow down. The Five Fold Kiss:
- The five-fold kiss is an element of Earth Honoring Spirituality that says the Divine is immanent, here, now in our bodies, our sexuality, our earth and each moment. It involves kissing five parts of the body. Each kiss given is accompanied by a blessing:
- Blessed be thy feet, that have brought thee in these ways (or to me)
- Blessed be thy knees, that shall kneel at the sacred altar (of our bodies)
- Blessed be thy [womb/phallus], without which we would not be
- Blessed be thy breasts, formed in [beauty/strength]
- Blessed be thy lips, that shall utter the Sacred Names. (our own).
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Ritual of Adoration and Reclaimation of My Vulva
I am a sister to my self first, I am a sister to all women everywhere.
I am my own best lover, I am my own best friend.
I praise and accept my beautiful vulva,
I love Her scent, her feel, her size, her shape,
I awaken her with my touch, and she is alive and vibrant.
I RECLAIM her power, my power,
I RECLAIM her pleasure, my pleasure,
I RECLAIM her wholeness, my wholeness as a woman.
I am my own best lover, I am my own best friend.
I praise and accept my beautiful vulva,
I love Her scent, her feel, her size, her shape,
I awaken her with my touch, and she is alive and vibrant.
I RECLAIM her power, my power,
I RECLAIM her pleasure, my pleasure,
I RECLAIM her wholeness, my wholeness as a woman.
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Self Love and Body Ritual
You can do this while in the bath, or before a mirror. Say this slowly to yourself and allow yourself to feel every word. You may have to do this more than once and I encourage you to do so. I suggest that you touch yourself as you say this prayer.
I love and adore my beautiful goddess body, I love my form.
I love and adore my hair, my eyes, my lashes, my ears, my cheeks, my lush lips and my whole face.
I love my throat, my neck, I adore all my wrinkles (if you have any),
I love and adore my luscious breasts, I praise their perfect size,
I love and adore my beautiful arms and perfect wrists.
I love and adore my hands and fingers for they are an extension of my self-expression.
I love and adore my belly, it’s roundness or firmness, I love my scars (if you have any).
I love and adore my pelvis, my hips, and my vibrant vulva.
I love and adore my buttocks the roundness, firmness or fullness of my cheeks,
I love and adore my thighs, my knees, my legs, caves and feet, even my toes.
I love and adore my skin, it is soft and sensual to my touch.
I love and adore my whole body, for my body is the body of the Divine Feminine and of the Goddess incarnate.
I bless my body and anoint my body with this oil of love and purification. (Use rose oil, ylang ylang or a blend of your own). Take the oil and anoint those areas you feel guided to do.
I love and adore my beautiful goddess body, I love my form.
I love and adore my hair, my eyes, my lashes, my ears, my cheeks, my lush lips and my whole face.
I love my throat, my neck, I adore all my wrinkles (if you have any),
I love and adore my luscious breasts, I praise their perfect size,
I love and adore my beautiful arms and perfect wrists.
I love and adore my hands and fingers for they are an extension of my self-expression.
I love and adore my belly, it’s roundness or firmness, I love my scars (if you have any).
I love and adore my pelvis, my hips, and my vibrant vulva.
I love and adore my buttocks the roundness, firmness or fullness of my cheeks,
I love and adore my thighs, my knees, my legs, caves and feet, even my toes.
I love and adore my skin, it is soft and sensual to my touch.
I love and adore my whole body, for my body is the body of the Divine Feminine and of the Goddess incarnate.
I bless my body and anoint my body with this oil of love and purification. (Use rose oil, ylang ylang or a blend of your own). Take the oil and anoint those areas you feel guided to do.
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What is Feminine Sexual Power
A woman’s true power is in her ability to know herself as an independent being expressing her feminine nature. She respects herself and her body, she knows her own worth. Her power lies in her ability to be at ease and comfortable in her own body and with her sexual power. When a woman can contain her feminine power, her sexuality from within she is then fully in her true power as a woman.
These are some of the qualities you can develop:
These are some of the qualities you can develop:
- Courage and bravery, strength
- Self knowledge
- Self Awareness
- Self-authority
- Self-confidence
- Self-acceptance
- Body love
- Having a voice and speaking your truth
- Cultivating your sexual presence and charisma
- Celebrating your sexuality
- Honoring your feminine power, your body, your sex
- Take full responsibility for your sexual power and learning how to use it wisely.
- Learning how to be graceful with your sexual allure and power
- Feeling integrated and whole with your sexual expressions
- Declaring your SOVEREIGNTY as a free woman and as an individual
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Invoking the Sexual Initiatress and
Activating the Original Blueprint of the Feminine
I invite you to reclaim yourself as a sexual initiatress and a sexually conscious woman, because when you use your sexual power with a sacred clear intent it brings harmony and balance back into your life, your relationships and into the world.
I ____________(say your name), on this day of ________, invoke the power of my own goddess self as Lilith the first original woman who is whole, sovereign and in full alignment with her authentic sexual power. I reclaim my holy sacred role as a sexually conscious woman and as a sexual initiatress. I stand strong, sovereign, and free in my authentic feminine power and activate within myself the original blueprint of the feminine in all its purity and full potential.
I commit to embodying to the best of my ability, this new way of being a sexually integrated and whole woman. As I remember who I am in my role as a sexual initiatress and a sexually conscious woman I commit to my awakening as an emissary of the New Divine Feminine Energy… and as I claim this for myself, I claim this for all women everywhere. I now anchor this new frequency of the Divine Feminine in myself and in the world. And So, It Is!
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To Get the Most from Saying this Decree
I suggest that you say this invocation three times and each time with more power and conviction until you begin to own this energy and new role. As the number three is a moving forward of energy, overcoming duality, expression, manifestation, and synthesis. Three is the first number to which the meaning “all” was given. It is The Triad and being the number of the whole as it contains the beginning, a middle and an end as the Mother, Maiden and Crone represent the cycles of a woman’s life.
I ____________(say your name), on this day of ________, invoke the power of my own goddess self as Lilith the first original woman who is whole, sovereign and in full alignment with her authentic sexual power. I reclaim my holy sacred role as a sexually conscious woman and as a sexual initiatress. I stand strong, sovereign, and free in my authentic feminine power and activate within myself the original blueprint of the feminine in all its purity and full potential.
I commit to embodying to the best of my ability, this new way of being a sexually integrated and whole woman. As I remember who I am in my role as a sexual initiatress and a sexually conscious woman I commit to my awakening as an emissary of the New Divine Feminine Energy… and as I claim this for myself, I claim this for all women everywhere. I now anchor this new frequency of the Divine Feminine in myself and in the world. And So, It Is!
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To Get the Most from Saying this Decree
I suggest that you say this invocation three times and each time with more power and conviction until you begin to own this energy and new role. As the number three is a moving forward of energy, overcoming duality, expression, manifestation, and synthesis. Three is the first number to which the meaning “all” was given. It is The Triad and being the number of the whole as it contains the beginning, a middle and an end as the Mother, Maiden and Crone represent the cycles of a woman’s life.
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Books You Can Read for the
Priestess of the Flame Training
Reclaiming Our Sexual Power, the Story of Eve & the Mythology of the Goddess
- Eve a Novel of the First Woman - Elissa Elliot
- Havah: The Story of Eve – a novel by Tosca Lee
- Eve and the Identity of Woman – Christopher L.C.E. Whitcombe
- The Myth of the Goddess – see my book notes
- Women, Earth and Spirit, The Feminine Symbol and Myth – Helen M. Luke
- How to Read the Akashic Records – Linda Howe
- Lillth the Keepers of the Flame -
- The Alphabet Versus the Goddess; The Conflict Between Word & Image by Leonard Shlain
- The Woman's Encyclopedia of Myths and Secrets by Barbara Walkerar
- The Yoni, Sacred Symbol of Female Creative Power – Rufus C. Camphausen
- Eve’s Secret, A Revolutionary Perspective on Human Sexuality- Josephine Lowndes Sevely
- The Dinner Party - Judy Chicago (out of print)
- Femalia – Joani Blank
- The Metamorphosis of Baubo – Winifred Milius Lubell
- The Yonitantra – J.A. Schoterman
- The Story of V Opening Pandora’s Box – Catherine Blackledge
- Dear Lover – David Deida
- Orgasm - Naomi Wolfe
- The Sacred Prostitute – Nancy Corbalis-Willis
- The Seductress, Women Who Ravished the World and the Men Who Loved Them – Betsey Prioleau
- Women of the Light – Ray Stubbs
- In the Company of the Courtesan – Sarah Dunat
- The Courtesan- Susan Caroll
- Sacred Pleasure – Riane Eisler
- Movies – Dangerous Beauty; Memoires of a Geisha
- Simply Irresistible by Ellen T. White
- The Book of the Courtesans; A Catalogue of Their Virtues by Susan Griffin
- Imagine a Woman in Love With Herself; Embracing Your Wisdom & Wholeness by Patricia Lynn Reilly
- The Beauty Myth & Vagina by Naomi Wolfe
- Vagina by Naomi Wolfe
ADDITIONAL BOOKS, DVD's & MORE
Sexual Healing & Recovery From Trauma:
- Healing Sex; A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma by Staci Haines
- Waking the Tiger; Healing Trauma by Peter Levine
- Healing Trauma; A Pioneering Program for Restoring the Wisdom of the Body by Peter Levine
- The Courage to Heal; A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis
- The Heart & Soul of Sex by Dr. Gina Ogden
- Spiritual Sex; The Authoritative History & Definitive Guide to the Art of the Ecstasy by Nik Douglas
- All Acts of Love & Pleasure; A Journal of Wiccan & Pagan Erotica Edited by Rhiannon Asher & George Moyer Reclaiming Goddess Sexuality;
- The Power of the Feminine Way by Linda Savage Ph.D
- The Soul of Sex; Cultivating Life as an Act of Love by Thomas Moore
- The Complete Idiot's Guide to Tantric Sex by Dr. Judy Kuriansky
- The Marriage of Sex & Spirit Edited by Geralyn Gendreau & Francesca Gentille
- Sex & Spirit; An Illustrated Guide to Sacred Sexuality by Clifford Bishop
- Sexual Ecstasy - Margo Anand
- Tantric Quest - Daniel Odier, Desire, the Tantric Path to Awakening
- Intimate Lover- David Deida
- Tantra - Osho
- Tantra, the Art of Conscious Loving; Charles and Carolyn Muir
- Expanded Orgasm for Women – Dr. Patti Taylor
- Emergence of the Sensual Woman – Saida Desilets, PhD
Understanding & Healing the Feminine:
- - Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes Phd
- - Reviving Ophelia; Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls by Mary Pipher, Phd
- - Aphrodite's Daughters; Women's Sexual Stories & the Journey of the Soul by Jalaja Bonheim
- - A Woman's Book of Power- Using Dance to Cultivate Energy & Health in Mindy, Body, and Spirit by Karen Andes
- - The Dance of the Dissident Daughter; A Woman's Journey from the Christian Tradition to the Sacred Feminine by Sue Monk Kidd
- - Imagine a Woman in Love With Herself; Embracing Your Wisdom & Wholeness by Patricia Lynn Reilly
- - The Beauty Myth & Vagina by Naomi Wolfe
- - Dear Lover -David Deida
- - The Myth of Male Power by Warren Farrell, Phd
- - The Men We Never Knew; How to Deepen Your Relationship with the Man You Love by Daphne Rose Kingma
- - The Way of the Superior Man, It’s a Guy Thing -David Deida
- - The Chalice & the Blade; Our History, Our Future by Riane Eisler
- - Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, PhD.
- - The Future of Love by Daphne Rose Kingma
- - The Courage for Peace; Daring to Create Harmony in Ourselves & the World by Louise Diamond
- - The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
- - Non-Violent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg Phd
- - The Dark Side of the Light Chasers by Debbie Ford
- - Psyche's Seeds; 12 Sacred Principles of Soul Based Psychology by Jacquelyn Small
- - Serving Fire; Rhythms & Rituals of the Hearth by Anne Scott
- - The Alphabet Versus the Goddess; The Conflict Between Word & Image by Leonard Shlain
- - The Woman's Encyclopedia of Myths and Secrets by Barbara Walker
- - Drawing Down the Moon by Margot Adler Phd
- - The Spiral Dance by Starhawk
- - Dreaming the Dark; Sex, Magick & Politics by Starhawk
- - The Path of the Priestess; A Guidebook for Awakening the Divine Feminine by Sharon Rose
- - Goddess Wisdom; Aphrodite-Artemis-Athena by Manuela Dunn Mascetti
- - Sacred Woman - Sacred Dance by Iris J. Stewart
- - When The Drummers Were Women; A Spiritual History of Rhythm by Layne Redmond
- - Sacred Pleasure: Sex, Myth, and the Politics of the Body--New Paths to Power and Love ; Riane Eisler
- When God Was A Woman by Merlin Stone
- - Ancient Pact by Caryn Colgan
- - The Sea Priestess by Dion Fortune
- - Moon Magic by Dion Fortune
- - The Heart of the Fire by Cerridwen Fallingstar
- - The Honest Courtesan: Veronica Franco, Citizen and Writer in Sixteenth-Century Venice
- - Memoirs of a Geisha
- - In the Company of a Courtesan
- - Courtesan, a Novel on Diane De Poitiers
- -The Moon Under Her Feet - Christine Kinsler
- Movie: "Dangerous Beauty"
- Movie: "Bliss"
- Movie: “The Civilization of Maxwell Bright”
- Magdalene Unveiled, the Ancient and Modern Sacred Prostitute
- Memoirs of a Geisha
- The Ascent of Woman
- Signs Out Of Time; The Story of Archaeologist Marija Gimbutas
- The Sacred Prostitute
- Masturbation Memories I & II
- Full Circle
- The Burning Times
- The Ascent of Woman Documentary on Netflix
- The Goddess Remembered
- The Power of Myth - Bill Moyers interviews Joseph Campbell
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