The story of womanhood has been told — but not by women.

Men have defined what it means to be feminine, to be beautiful, to be sexual. They crafted an image of womanhood that served their power, not our truth. Over generations, these distorted ideals became embedded into our culture, our religions, our schools — and even into our own self-perceptions.

This rewriting began during the early Bronze and Iron Ages, when the Great Mother Goddess — once revered as the source of all life — was systematically erased. As patriarchal religions rose, they replaced the feminine divine with a singular masculine god: a god of war, control, and authority. It was not merely spiritual—it was political. 

By stripping women of their connection to creation, sensuality, and self-sovereignty, those in power could more easily dominate and manipulate society. If you take away a woman's sexual power, her body, and her voice, you control the future.

Over time, the Divine Feminine was turned into something dangerous. Women's bodies became symbols of temptation. Our emotions were dismissed as hysterical. Our sensuality became taboo. Shame replaced sacredness.

But we’ve been taught to fear it. To reject it. To deny it in ourselves and in each other.

This wasn’t just about individual women — it was about dismantling a whole frequency of feminine life force energy: Shakti.

That energy lives in your body.
It lives in your womb.
It lives in your truth.

But we’ve been taught to fear it. To reject it. To deny it in ourselves and in each other. Even today, women are taught — overtly and subtly — to use their sexuality as  a commodity. To sell it for attention, love, or material security. Media still tells us that our worth is based on our sexual appeal to men. And although we’ve made progress in recent decades, the deeper paradigm hasn't changed. The male-dominated power structure still echoes through our lives.

So what do we do now?
We rise — not in opposition, but in remembrance.
We return to the truth that has always lived inside us.
We reclaim what was never meant to be taken.

The time has come to awaken to your authentic feminine power — and to embody it in a completely new way.

This new paradigm of sacred feminine power begins with you. When you rise, when you heal, when you love yourself — it sends waves through the collective. You become a living ley line of the feminine grid. You anchor the New Earth with every breath, every truth, every sacred "yes" to yourself.

The truth is: The New Earth is already here. But to live in it, you must raise your vibration and embody the new feminine frequency.
You must become the woman you were born to be — not the one the world told you to become.

 I invite you to join me and a growing sisterhood of awakening women. 
Receive your FREE Living Goddess Guide: Redefining Your Erotic Sense of Self — and begin your journey home to your body, your power, and your sacred pleasure,
and together, we will rise.

With love,
Luminessa Enjara

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​For Thousands of years, the story of womanhood has been written and distorted by men. They defined what it meant to be feminine. They decided what made a woman “sexy,” “acceptable,” or “pure.” They projected their desires onto us, then wrapped those projections in religion, education, and culture until we began to believe them as our own.

But make no mistake: this version of womanhood was never ours.

This distortion began long ago, in the story of Genesis and during the rise of the Bronze and Iron Ages. The reverence for the Great Mother—the ancient feminine force of creation, intuition, and life—was slowly replaced by a masculine god of war, control, and conquest.

The true story of Lilith as the First Woman was replaced by a more subservient Eve, and with that shift came the quiet erasure of the feminines rightful power—her sexual power.

From ancient scriptures to school books, from pulpits to pop culture, we've been conditioned to believe that owning our sexual power makes us dangerous, unworthy, or unlovable. We’ve been taught to fear the very thing that makes us divine.

Women who dared to embody their sensual, sovereign selves were labeled immoral, wild, inappropriate—even punished. And for many of us, even now, those inherited beliefs still live quietly inside. They show up in the mirror, in the bedroom, in our choices about our bodies, desires, and voices.

Herstory Was Rewritten

The sacred feminine was stripped from the collective memory. And in her place, a story was born that made women forget who they truly are. Why? Because a woman in her full power—sensual, sexually sovereign, embodied—is unstoppable, and that kind of woman cannot be controlled.

 When you separate a woman from her sexual energy, her innate, primal, authentic power, you separate her from her life force. When you shame her body, you disempower her voice. When you teach her that her value lies in how men see her and in her sexuality, you break her connection to the divine within. 

This was never random. This was never accidental.This was a system of control, and it’s still working today.

You might think things are different now. I’m not affected by those old beliefs. But the truth is: we all are. You may think: That’s not me. I’m empowered. I’m free. But we’ve all been touched by it. It's in the collective air we breathe. And while some laws have changed, we are still living in a rape culture and the system that devalues the feminine still thrives.

Even now, the collective energy around us is infused with ancient conditioning.
Even now, women are taught to use their sexuality as currency—to secure attention, affection, and security.Even now, your voice is often second-guessed. Your power is still threatening. Your body is still politicized and sexualized.

So Here is the Invitation:

- Not to be afraid. But to remember.
- To reclaim and reconnect with the fullness of your sexual power.
- To rise in this new frequency of the feminine.

 The time has come for a new frequency of the feminine to emerge within you.

It’s time to activate your authentic feminine power within your heart, mind, and body. Within your sacred portal or vulva, womb.  To release the shame, fear, lack of self-worth — the version that was shaped to please others, seduce, or survive. The time has come for you to know who you truly are. To be the sexually sovereign woman that your ancestress Lilith the First Woman was and still is. 

​So How Do You Begin? Here Are a Few Suggestions.

 1. Reclaim your body as sacred.
Start with the place they told you was shameful—your vulva, yoni, punani, pussy.
This is your sacred portal, your center of creation, your connection to divine wisdom.
Honor it. Bless it. Speak its name with reverence. Reconnect with Her.

 2. Create rituals of body love.
Draw a bath with candles and essential oils. Gaze at yourself in the mirror and speak praise over your body. Anoint your skin with love. Touch yourself with gentleness and awe. You are not just worthy—you are holy.

 3. Meet one of the true feminine archetypes.
Study Lilith and reconnect with her lineage—not the demonized version, but the sovereign first woman, who refused submission and embodied divine sexual power. Let her story awaken something wild and free in your soul. She is a guide for what’s possible when we stop asking for permission and apologizing for being a woman.

 4. Use your voice.
Ask for what you want. Speak your truth—even if it shakes at first.
Start small. Practice often. Grow bolder. Especially in your intimate relationships, where voice and vulnerability are key.

This is not just a call for empowerment—it’s a sacred remembering. A return to your deepest self. A breaking of the spell that was cast so long ago. 

You were never meant to shrink, hide, or apologize for being a woman. You were meant to lead, love, and live fully alive and awake.
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The new frequency of the feminine is rising—and it's unstoppable. Together, we have the power to awaken, reclaim what was once hidden, and anchor this sacred energy into a new paradigm for women, and for the world.

You are not just witnessing the shift. You are the shift.

If you choose to use your voice, love your body, and speak your truth you will help reshape the future for you, your daughters, and their daughters. Now is the time.

​Will you answer the call?


​If you are ready to take the next step you can contact me directly at [email protected] or download my Living Goddess Guide if you haven't already. 

I have delineated five basic aspects of  the goddesses of love and sexuality.  They are love and beauty, or the Goddess of Love, Sensuality and Beauty, the instinctual feminine, or the Primal Goddess, the Sexual Initiatress who encompasses both the sexual healer and sacred Courtesan. These aspects represent our sexual expression in a variety of roles. 
 
In our modern world, women are still greatly influenced by the images of women in the media that they see.  We only see one or two aspects that are often very limited in how they portray women and women's sexual empowerment. 
 
Women often fear, hide, are ashamed, or exploit their sexual power. Even if they don't know that they are doing so. Very few women fully understand what their authentic feminine power is and how to use it.  We don't  know how to embody it.

 When images of the feminine are distorted to fit a particular cultural standard that has been defined by patriarchal standards of femininity, we forget what it feels like to be whole, sexually empowered and integrated with all aspects of our sexual expression.  We forget how to stand strong, feel beautiful, confident, safe in our bodies and be in control of our sexual energy. 
 
What I have come to realize is that all women have all of these aspects of the goddess of love within them, and we need to integrate all of them; to learn how to be comfortable with each aspect so that we can feel whole, sovereign, and free to express all of our sexual roles and yet not be defined by them.
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Embracing the Goddesses of Love in You
The first thing is to begin to understand who these images of the feminine are to you personally is to take the time to find out who you most identify with.

Ask yourself these questions:

• Which aspects do I fear or feel comfortable with?
• Who draws me in and fascinates me?
• Which aspect do I long to know better?
•  How am I currently showing up in the world regarding my sexual power and expression?

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For the most part, women have been forced to use their sexuality to survive. We see throughout history that women’s sexual power has been feared, her body a symbol of life and the power to create was made to seem evil, something that tempted men away from the divine.

Through getting to know the various archetypes of the goddess which represent feminine sexuality and love we can begin to learn more about ourselves and our sexual expression. We can also begin to embody more of the qualities we wish to express.