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 What is True Self-Reliance? Being self-reliant has many definitions. It means trusting in yourself—your inner wisdom, your strengths, your unique gifts. It’s about knowing that deep within you lies everything you need to navigate life’s challenges. While there are many ways to describe self-reliance, I want to focus here on the most important one: your connection to your inner self, your higher guidance, and your Essential Nature. This quiet, powerful part of you—sometimes called your intuition, your God Self, Source, or Divine Intelligence—is your true compass. This power is the only true lasting thing you can depend upon since it is the Divine expression of you in human form. When you nurture this connection, you begin to understand that you are never truly alone. You have within you a wellspring of strength, clarity, and peace that you can draw from at any moment. This power is the only true lasting thing you can depend upon since it is the Divine expression of you in human form. Your inner self knows everything there is to know about you, and when you begin to turn your attention away from the outer chaos and focus on the stillness of your very being, you will feel more relaxed and begin to trust that life has your back. This is one of the most powerful things you can do for yourself at this time. Being self-reliant doesn't mean you never ask for help or support. Quite the opposite. Knowing when and how to receive support is actually part of being self-aware and strong. But in a world that often feels uncertain, fast-moving, and full of noise—from media, fear-based narratives, and global events—it’s easy to lose touch with your own inner truth. There is so much change happening every day, and there is much to distract you from your own inner knowing. The constant barrage of fake news, geopolitical drama, and fear-mongering by the elites can easily cause anyone to feel overwhelmed. That’s why it’s more important than ever to turn inward. The greatest gift you can give yourself is the ability to hear and trust your inner voice. Because no matter what happens outside of you, this inner connection is steady, wise, and true. When you anchor yourself in that place, you’ll find clarity amidst confusion, peace in the storm, and power where you once felt powerless.  Who Is Your Essential Self?
Your Essential Self is the truest, most eternal part of you. It’s the pure awareness that existed before the world told you who to be. It’s not shaped by fear, trauma, or conditioning—those are layers that life has added. Beneath them all, your Essential Self is: Infinite, omnipresent, omniscient, wise, whole, unconditionally loving, and in perfect harmony with all of life This self is not separate from the Universe. In fact, it is an individualized expression of the same creative force that spins galaxies, grows forests, and breathes life into everything. You are not just in the universe. You are a co-creative part of it. When you align with your Essential Self, you begin to live in harmony with the quantum field. You stop chasing, forcing, and fearing—and start attracting, allowing, and co-creating. This is the foundation of quantum living, which, when focused upon, will sustain your every need. How to Deepen Your Connection with Your Essential Self & the Universe
Final Words of Encouragement No matter what is going on around you, you can learn how to stay connected to your True Nature. You are not here to struggle and survive, even though you may feel that you have done little else. You are here to awaken and thrive in harmony with your soul and the sacred intelligence that flows through all things. Your Essential Self already knows the way. The Universe is already listening. Your only job is to return to the truth of who you are—and trust that life is rising up to meet you.
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 You may have heard the term Golden Age before—it’s been used for decades, even more frequently in the past year. But what does it truly mean? The Golden Age isn’t some distant, futuristic version of Earth, more advanced and polished than the one we live in today. It isn’t something that will suddenly appear out of nowhere. It isn't dependent upon technology or better laws and government on anything external; it begins within each of us.
To create a Golden Age, we must first transform ourselves. Each person must let go of old ways of seeing themselves and the world. This means doing the deep inner work—healing past wounds, releasing old traumas, and reconnecting with the essence of who we truly are. We must dissolve the illusion of separation from ourselves, from our higher consciousness, from the Divine, and from the universal intelligence that connects us all. Historically, a Golden Age is a time of great harmony, prosperity, and cultural flourishing—a period when humanity thrives in peace and balance. It is often guided by the values of the Divine Feminine, fostering deep respect for life, nature, and the sacred balance between masculine and feminine energies. One example is the Minoan civilization of ancient Crete, which thrived in balance and abundance for 1,500 years (3000–1100 BC). Right now, we are living through the collapse of an old world built on control, domination, and illusion. Much of what we once believed to be true is unraveling before our eyes. The history we were taught, the systems we trusted, and the structures we relied on are crumbling. While this may feel chaotic, it is a necessary clearing. From these ashes, a new world is waiting to be born.But it won’t emerge on its own. The Golden Age begins within us first. As we do the inner work—awakening to our higher selves, reconnecting with divine truth, and embodying a new way of being—we create the energetic foundation for a new world to rise. To create the Golden Age, we must transform ourselves from the inside out. It starts with living from a place of unconditional love—practicing compassion, kindness, patience, and non-judgment. It means developing inner peace, courage, and joy while discovering who you truly are. This journey requires commitment, for it is no easy task to delve deep within yourself to meet your shadow. You may already be on this journey, or you may not even have started it, but it is a necessary step if you wish to create the Golden Age. Then, let that inner transformation guide you in how to show up in the world. When we embody this change, we help create a new reality for everyone. This is not just a dream; it is a call to action. The Golden Age is not something we wait for—it is something we become. If you need support on your ascension journey and feel lost, confused, or in need of someone to talk with, please email me at [email protected].  What do you want 2025 to mean for yourself? How do you envision your life becoming in this new era of spiritual awakening and a paradigm shift? What are you ready to let go of, release completely, forgive and what are you prepared to embrace and move forward with?
These are some of the questions I ask you to ask yourself. We are in a cycle of completion that will continue throughout 2025 since it's a 9-year cycle numerologically. This means collectively, we can truly release what hasn't been working for the good of all in our societies, governments, and institutions. In numerology, 2025 is a 9 Universal Year (2 + 0 + 2 + 5 = 9), making it a year of profound spiritual significance, transformation, and completion. The energy of the number 9 is expansive and humanitarian, representing endings, wisdom, and the culmination of cycles. This energy offers powerful opportunities for the collective and ourselves to let go, heal, and evolve. The Collective Significance of 2025 as a 9 Universal Year
Personal Significance of a 9 Universal Year
How to Align with the Energy of 2025
A 9 Universal Year is a gift, offering a chance to step into alignment with our highest selves and embrace the interconnectedness of all life. As we collectively move through this powerful year, let us lean into its call for compassion, wisdom, and completion, trusting that the endings it brings are the gateways to transformative new beginnings  The Winter Solstice traditionally is a time when we have the opportunity to release the old self and rebirth ourselves into something new. To claim our new vibration. This week holds a powerful opportunity for all of us. As we approach the Solstice, we are at a pivotal moment often described as the "splitting of the timelines." Over the past year, multiple timelines have coexisted in the third dimension, and from a Quantum Physics perspective, countless timelines exist simultaneously. The one we experience depends entirely on our vibrational match to that timeline. This bifurcation that will occur on December 21st will create a permanent timeline split. In simple terms, your vibration—the energy you emit through your thoughts, feelings, and actions—determines which timeline you align with. Each moment, we can shift into one of many variations of reality. This week, especially leading up to the Solstice, offers a unique chance to elevate your vibration as high as possible. But what does it mean to "raise your vibration," and how do you do it? Let’s break it down. We live in a Quantum world, a Unified Field of energy that is intelligent and responsive. Science has shown that everything in existence, including you, is made of energy. Even the solid objects we see around us are, at their core, pure energy. When we name or label something, we give it a fixed identity in our minds, but in reality, it’s all just particles and electrons vibrating at certain frequencies. The way we observe and focus on something shapes how it appears to us. To raise your vibration, focus on uplifting thoughts, emotions, and actions. Gratitude, love, kindness, and clarity of intention help align you with higher frequencies, opening the door to more positive and fulfilling experiences. This week is your chance to align yourself with the highest version of your reality—one where joy, growth, and connection are abundant. Throughout 2024, we’ve been allowed to work on our vibration and release the traumas and patterns that have kept us anchored to the past. This year has been a journey of clearing and letting go, making space for the new and higher possibilities that await us Of creating a new timeline individually and of course aligning with the highest possible timeline in the collective as well. I want to share a personal part of this process with you, as it might resonate with your own experience. Over the past few months, I’ve been doing deep work—releasing attachments and judgments about my own life. It hasn’t been easy, but it’s been profoundly healing. I’ve spent time forgiving myself for the things I said I would do but didn’t, for the times I neglected my material needs, and for the dreams I once held onto tightly but ultimately had to let go. I have allowed myself to grieve the loss of that dream and to allow myself to reassess where I am now and what my new dream may want to be. This grieving the loss of an old dream and self-forgiveness is a vital part of the process of up-leveling your vibration. When we release these judgments and attachments, we free ourselves from the weight of guilt, regret, and self-criticism. It’s not about ignoring what we’ve been through but honoring the soul lessons we’ve learned and allowing ourselves to move forward. As the Solstice approaches, you are presented with a profound opportunity to release the past and embrace a renewed version of yourself. If you feel called to this work, it begins with reflecting on what you’ve been holding onto—old patterns, unmet expectations, or past dreams that no longer serve you. Start with self-forgiveness and compassion. Acknowledge your effort, even when things didn’t turn out as you hoped. Trust that every experience has brought you exactly where you need to be for your growth and evolution. When you feel ready, surrender your old self and any attachments to past dreams or outcomes, to the Divine, to Source, or however you connect to the greater universal energy. Let go fully, allowing space for something new to emerge. Once you’ve released the past, take a moment to reflect on the blessings of 2024. Often, these blessings come in unexpected forms—challenges, lessons, or growth opportunities. Recognizing them can be a powerful step toward gratitude and alignment with your highest path. Consider the following areas as you reflect on your blessings:
Gratitude for these blessings—big or small—helps you integrate the lessons of the year and step into the Winter Solstice with a lighter, clearer heart, ready for the opportunities that lie ahead. Each step you take to release the old brings you closer to alignment with your true self and a higher vibrational state. Remember, this is a journey of love, patience, and transformation. You’re not alone in this process, and every bit of work you do is a step toward the life you’re meant to create. By engaging in this process, you can lighten your energetic load, elevate your frequency, and step into a higher vibration. I’ve discovered that simply declaring, “I am done with this old story of myself. I am done reliving it, healing it, and holding onto it. I release it. I am done,” has the power to shift everything. "At this moment, I claim my new vibration and rebirth myself into a higher state of being. By doing this, I choose to align with my highest timeline and contribute to the collective journey toward the Golden Age." I invite you to join me in this transformative declaration. Release what no longer serves you, claim your new vibration, and step boldly into your highest potential. Together, let us align with the highest collective timeline and create a brighter, more harmonious future. The time is now—will you answer the call?  Imagine a world where every individual is cherished, respected, and honored for their unique strengths and wisdom. A world where women are celebrated not just for their beauty but for their courage and insight, and where men are free to express their full range of emotions and potential, without judgment or fear.
In this world, as young girls and boys come of age, they are welcomed into adulthood with sacred ceremonies that teach them to embrace their bodies and themselves with love and acceptance. There is no shame in self-love, no hesitation in celebrating the beauty of intimacy. Here, the elders gently guide the young, teaching them about love, responsibility, and the wonder of adulthood. This world is one where men and women stand as equals, working hand-in-hand to build communities rooted in respect and collaboration. Everyone’s unique gifts are recognized and valued, and every person plays a vital role in shaping the health, education, and well-being of the whole. Gender isn’t a barrier, but a part of the beautiful spectrum of identity, and the right person always steps forward to fulfill the role that best aligns with their talents. In this world, creativity flourishes boundlessly. Art, music, science, and medicine thrive, inspired by an ever-expanding curiosity for new ideas and discoveries. Each individual knows their place—not as part of a rigid hierarchy but as part of a greater, harmonious whole, connected to their family, community, and the wider world. Spirituality is as natural as breathing, woven into the fabric of daily life, encouraging growth from a young age. There is no war in this world, no need for conflict, because life and nature are revered in their sacred balance. This is a world where everyone is seen as sacred. From birth, the spiritual gifts of each person are nurtured and allowed to blossom. This might sound like a dream, or perhaps a distant memory of an ancient time, but it’s neither. This is the future many of us are choosing to create right now. For those of us who share this vision, we are building a new world—a partnership society where people feel deeply connected to the Earth, to one another, and to a higher, unifying force. Whether you call it the Unified Field, Divine Intelligence, or simply Love, this energy binds us all together. In this new world, people matter more than profits, and everyone is empowered to contribute, to live with purpose, and to feel a profound sense of belonging. The pain, division, and violence that haunt our world today have no place in this new society. This new world vibrates at a higher frequency—one born from love, unity, and partnership. It’s not created by chance or magic; it is built through dedication, vision, and the collective will of those who dream of a life where all can thrive together. This is a call to those who are ready—to those who feel the stir within, the call to transform from the inside out. A world of unity, harmony, and love starts with each of us. It begins with us becoming the kind of people who live in partnership with ourselves, with our families, and with our communities. To build a world of peace and connection, we must first heal the parts of ourselves that are in conflict. Each of us must do the inner work—breaking through limiting beliefs, healing wounds, and overcoming the challenges we’ve been given to face. The old world is breaking down, and as it crumbles, we are called to rise and step into the invitation to become the best versions of ourselves. As we align with our soul’s purpose and our truest selves, the world of partnership, unity, and love that we dream of becomes real. Together, we can create this new world—a world where we all thrive, connected by love and lifted by our shared vision. For support on your path of Ascension and Awakening please go to: https://heartandsoulmentor.wixsite.com/akashiccounseling/spiritual-guid  Change yourself and you change the world. We have all heard this before but what does it mean? Think about where you are on your journey because your inner state shapes your timeline. From a quantum perspective, time doesn’t exist—it’s a concept we’ve created. All moments happen simultaneously.
You can only change your life by working on your perceptions and energy field. This involves doing your inner work, facing your shadows, and healing deep wounds. As you heal, you transform your timeline and impact the collective timeline. To change the world, start by changing yourself. Your vibration is crucial, now more than ever. If you want to see a different world, begin by examining the frequency you’re emitting. What are you putting your attention on? Where are you focusing your energy? If you feel like a victim, for example, how can you begin to unwind that program to heal and free yourself? That's your starting point. We are all made of electromagnetic energy and light. When your vibration is low, your light is dim, and you’ll attract similar low frequencies. The Law of Attraction is just that. It reflects back the energy or frequency you are emitting consciously or unconsciously. Your vibration is stabilized when you have cleared out the old traumas and programming of your past and have fully brought yourself into a state of balance. What you perceive in life is influenced by the energy you broadcast, physically and energetically. It’s all about your inner journey and commitment to doing the inner work necessary to build your light quotient. To ascend this is necessary since the process of Ascension is spiritual, energetic, and physical. It requires the development of mastery over your emotional, mental, energetic, and physical bodies. This may sound like a lot and it isn't for the faint of heart or for everyone to do all of this. But if you can just start by focusing on your personal growth and healing then you are on the right track. So, focus on your inner work and ask yourself, “What message or energy am I sending out? What frequency am I emitting in the world?” Does it align with your soul's purpose and true heart, or is your ego mind in control? Question yourself and start your transformation from within. You are reading this article because you are ready to take the next step in your ascension process. Ascension is about raising your personal frequency and light quotient, which also lifts the collective vibration. Remember, you are a part of the greater whole, a fractal of the collective field. This is a unique time in history where the entire collective is ascending along with the planet. That is why it is so important for each individual to do their own healing work and begin to awaken themselves to their True Nature. If each person does this with a deep commitment to their own ascension, then the collective field's vibration would rise as well and reflect a world in kind. If you wish to live in a New World you must be in that world now and begin to live on that timeline.  I recently began to re-read a book that truly changed my life view of how our world has gotten to where we are today. That book is The Chalice and the Blade, by Riane Eisler. I first read this book back in the 80's when it first came out. Yes, I was one of those women who was just beginning to discover the Goddess during that time. This book had taken work done buy Maria Gimbutas one of the first women archeologists of her day to actually prove that there was a Goddess culture in many societies before they were taken over by what Riane calls, the nomadic hordes or the Kurgans. Partnership Societies I am telling you about this book because I feel that it is important for us to know why we got here. At least to understand the roots of why our world was turned upside down. For thousands of years, there were cultures that existed that Riane calls partnership societies. Women and men lived in harmony together, and art, science, medicine, music, as well as agriculture, shipping and technology thrived. These cultures like Minoa, (2300 BC) or Crete, lived a sort of idyllic life one that is often akin to what we might call a garden of Eden. That is not to say that they did not have their problems like any other society but for the most part they were peaceful, artistically advanced and often women and men shared equal status and responsibility for the governing of their cities.. At any rate, as I began to re-read the passages of the book that told about Crete and how because it was protected by the sea, the hordes of nomadic peoples, or the Kurgans, that were ravishing most of Old Europe for a period of hundreds of years, did not reach Minoa or Crete until much later. So this advanced culture survived for almost 1500 years until earthquakes and other natural disasters weakened the terrain and the walls that protected their city. The Kurgans What actually took place was that the dominator cultures of these nomadic tribes used their knowledge of bronze to develop weapons of destruction and war rather than for science, technology, or art. Their gods were Yahweh, and other gods of war. The goddess did not really hold a high place as these tribes lived often in the desert and not in the fertile planes of Old Europe. They were nomadic and women were the servers of men. What happened because of these invasions by these people called the Kurgans literally changed the course of our history from one of being dedicated to fostering feminine values into one that fostered extreme masculine values of domination, war, and power over others. These nomadic hoards literally turned civilization as it was known upside down. I remember when I first read this I felt devastated and cried for hours in despair as to what caused our world to become a dominator culture. Today, most of us on some level have acknowledged that any society that lives based on only one set of values will become imbalanced and sick. We know that our Western culture and even much of our Eastern and Asian cultures are based on masculine dominator values. We have often experienced first hand the harsh realities of living in a dominator culture but we have also seen the rise of feminine values and women today have finally begun to be heard.  What You Can Do
So why is this important for us to understand? Well, I believe that when we know the reasons for any change in a culture or society and we can see where we came from first, then we can also know that we can create a new way for all to live. We know that right now our old dominator structures are crumbling before our eyes. Yes, sometimes it doesn't feel that way, but in truth, I am here to tell you that it is. Before any new society can be created the old must die, it must crumble and it may take years or decades for it to do so. The old dinosaurs will eventually not last the new ideas of a people who truly wish to change the world they are living in.
 We are at the dawning of a new age that literally was initiated on the Solstice Dec. 21st, 2020. We are also beginning a new year that holds our hopes for what this new world can be even as the old world continues to fall apart. Many call this time the Shift of Ages, which some have said started with the onset of the information age of the internet, but for me, it somehow feels as if we have truly just begun it. This Shift of Ages occurs every 2,160 years. This is a time of great change for our world and with change, there may also be a disruption of the old ways of living and being. Our year began with the COVID virus which was the first disruption to our way of life. Regardless of how or why this virus came to our world its greater purpose I believe was to cause all of humanity to stop and look at the world we had created. To take time out and just reflect on our own lives, our relationships, and what our world had become. The disruption of businesses, schools, recreation, and just about everything you and I held as our norm in life came to a crashing halt all at once, all over the world. This was the first opportunity any of us really had on a large-scale level to feel our normal everyday activities come to an end. I know at first after the shock of it began to wear off I began to adjust to this change. I didn’t particularly like it nor did I feel it was warranted but nevertheless I accepted these changes for the moment. Again, change especially on a world level can often be chaotic, unsettling, and traumatic and cause hardships for many, but it doesn’t always have to. Change can be positive even when it feels disruptive because it can also bring about new ways of thinking, being, and a reevaluation of what is most important to each individual. It can bring about deep personal change and cause us to reflect more on our own shadow aspects that need to be seen. This of course is often also reflected out in the world as we saw during this past year. The transition from one age to another is where we are today. As 2020 ends and 2021 begins we have many choices that we will have to make. We are faced with a chance to really take a good look at what we hold most dear. What is most important to each of us as we move forward? The bigger question here is are we going to allow those who have dictated how we should live, think, and behave to continue to take away our basic civil and human rights from underneath our noses all in the name of safety and protection that we don't really need? We are all being asked to be courageous and to take our power back from the elite few who have taken control with fear and divide and conquer tactics. It is time to stand-up with conviction for what you know is wrong and say NO MORE, this is our world and each of us gets to decide what we will or will not do not just an elite few. Thinking for Ourselves During these next 2 months it is especially important that we begin to act and set the tone for this new year. Will you continue to say nothing and follow orders as they are given, or will you question everything you see and hear deciding for yourself what makes sense to you? It is crucial that you begin to think about what is being told you and to ask questions if you don't know the answers. It is important that you begin to wake up to the fact that it is up to all of us to take back our world and to begin to create the new one we wish to live in. " It is time to take responsibility for the world we wish to live in." This shift is bringing out the best and the worst in humankind. Some people are preparing for this shift by opening their hearts and minds and embracing this uncertainty and changes, and some people are intimidated by the changes, they fear the unknown and may wish to go back in time and back to "normal". The past is gone the future is yet to unfold and all we have is right here in this moment. What you say and do now is what counts. You can focus on the chaos and fear or you can focus on knowing that in order to create a new world the falling apart of the old world is necessary. Once you have accepted that this is a good thing, even though it may be challenging you, new values will come forth so that we can all begin to create a new society that works for all. Each one of us will need to learn how to find stability and guidance within ourselves to trust this guidance and the Laws of Nature, the Unified Field, Quantum Field, God/Goddess or whatever name you call Consciousness. That place where all life begins, all possibilities exist, and which is the substratum of the universe we live in. You are being asked to find your way back home to your essential self if you are to make it through these times. “Transformation is never a painless process. When you fast or cleanse to purify your body, at first you feel worse, because toxins get stirred up in order to be eliminated. Once these poisons have been cleared, you feel lighter and more energized. Now imagine that every person on planet Earth is going through this shift. We are heading into a time of radical change. It is a time of great potential growth and expansion, but it is also a time of great potential pain and suffering. The more that you understand what is happening, the more that you can go through all of the changes without losing your balance and stability.” Santokh Singh Khalsa The more you understand what is happening and what is being called for, the easier it becomes to meet the challenges and to face what needs to be faced with strength, courage, and conviction. Here Are a Few Suggestions to Help You to Find Your Center and to Connect to Your Own Source Energy. Have a daily spiritual practice. Every spiritual tradition has one thing in common: a daily practice. This can be many different things: yoga, meditation, chanting, prayer, contemplation, journaling, etc. The point is that a daily practice can give you something that you can do that brings you back to your center.
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