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 Change yourself and you change the world. We have all heard this before but what does it mean? Think about where you are on your journey because your inner state shapes your timeline. From a quantum perspective, time doesn’t exist—it’s a concept we’ve created. All moments happen simultaneously.
You can only change your life by working on your perceptions and energy field. This involves doing your inner work, facing your shadows, and healing deep wounds. As you heal, you transform your timeline and impact the collective timeline. To change the world, start by changing yourself. Your vibration is crucial, now more than ever. If you want to see a different world, begin by examining the frequency you’re emitting. What are you putting your attention on? Where are you focusing your energy? If you feel like a victim, for example, how can you begin to unwind that program to heal and free yourself? That's your starting point. We are all made of electromagnetic energy and light. When your vibration is low, your light is dim, and you’ll attract similar low frequencies. The Law of Attraction is just that. It reflects back the energy or frequency you are emitting consciously or unconsciously. Your vibration is stabilized when you have cleared out the old traumas and programming of your past and have fully brought yourself into a state of balance. What you perceive in life is influenced by the energy you broadcast, physically and energetically. It’s all about your inner journey and commitment to doing the inner work necessary to build your light quotient. To ascend this is necessary since the process of Ascension is spiritual, energetic, and physical. It requires the development of mastery over your emotional, mental, energetic, and physical bodies. This may sound like a lot and it isn't for the faint of heart or for everyone to do all of this. But if you can just start by focusing on your personal growth and healing then you are on the right track. So, focus on your inner work and ask yourself, “What message or energy am I sending out? What frequency am I emitting in the world?” Does it align with your soul's purpose and true heart, or is your ego mind in control? Question yourself and start your transformation from within. You are reading this article because you are ready to take the next step in your ascension process. Ascension is about raising your personal frequency and light quotient, which also lifts the collective vibration. Remember, you are a part of the greater whole, a fractal of the collective field. This is a unique time in history where the entire collective is ascending along with the planet. That is why it is so important for each individual to do their own healing work and begin to awaken themselves to their True Nature. If each person does this with a deep commitment to their own ascension, then the collective field's vibration would rise as well and reflect a world in kind. If you wish to live in a New World you must be in that world now and begin to live on that timeline.
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 Recently, I revisited Peggy Ornstein's insightful book, "Girls and Sex," penned in 2016. It was a journey to reconnect with her research and insights into various aspects of girls' experiences and perspectives on sexuality, relationships, and identity. I wanted to see if there had been any shifts since the book's publication and, if so, what they were. Did girls still navigate similar challenges in the realms of sex, dating, and the infamous hook-up culture? As someone deeply entrenched in teaching women's sexuality and serving as a sex educator for years, I found some of the anecdotes from young women disheartening. Their accounts of navigating the patriarchal landscapes of college life, particularly within dorms, sororities, or frat houses, shed light on persistent issues. Questions lingered: Was the outdated excuse of "boys will be boys" still prevalent, especially within fraternities? Did girls still feel pressured to conform, to be sexually active, to be seen as fun, despite the potential drawbacks of the hook-up scene? Reflecting on the narratives shared, I couldn't help but wonder about the underlying implications of the hook-up culture. Did the need for alcohol to facilitate casual encounters suggest a deeper issue with self-perception? It appeared that despite societal progress, the hook-up scene remained skewed in favor of male desires, often overlooking female satisfaction and emotional needs. While some women may find temporary liberation or exploration in casual encounters, it often comes at a cost. Many remain unaware of their sexual preferences or feel too embarrassed to voice their desires. For them, losing their virginity or engaging in non-committal encounters becomes more about fitting in than finding fulfillment. Listening to contemporary accounts, it's apparent that satisfaction with hook-up dynamics remains elusive for many women. The casual nature of these encounters often precludes emotional intimacy, leaving participants unfulfilled and disconnected. There's a prevailing sentiment that getting too close to a hook-up partner is discouraged, as it blurs the lines into traditional dating, which itself seems to be viewed as antiquated or undesirable.  Drawing from personal experiences, I acknowledge the allure of casual encounters as a means of exploration, but also recognize their limitations. Like many, I traversed my twenties experimenting with casual hook-ups, yet found true sexual empowerment only through self-discovery and leaving behind the hook-up scene. Taking charge of my pleasure became paramount, as I realized that relying solely on a partner for satisfaction was unsustainable. Regrettably, it seems that despite the passage of time, the dynamics of the hook-up culture remain largely unchanged. Women, especially those inexperienced in sexual matters, continue to encounter one-sided encounters where their needs are often sidelined. It's disheartening to realize that decades later, many young women still grapple with similar challenges and frustrations. In contrast, dating emerges as a platform for genuine connection and exploration. It offers the opportunity to engage with others on a deeper level, fostering communication and understanding. For those seeking meaningful relationships, dating serves as a vital tool for gauging compatibility and shared goals. Ultimately, the question persists: Does the prevalent hook-up culture truly empower women, or does it ensnare them in the illusion of liberation? While there may be fleeting benefits, the broader impact on women's sexual autonomy and fulfillment warrants critical examination. We need to talk openly respect each other, and build real connections to improve things. By focusing on understanding ourselves, feeling strong, and ensuring we're happy, We can make relationships more fulfilling for everyone. It's time to move past just seeking quick thrills and start valuing deep connections and real pleasure in our relationships. Moving forward, fostering a culture that values open communication, mutual respect, and genuine emotional connection is paramount to reshaping perceptions and practices surrounding sexuality and relationships. Encouraging self-exploration, empowerment, and prioritizing individual fulfillment can pave the way for more fulfilling, enriching experiences for all individuals, transcending the limitations of a culture fixated on fleeting pleasures and superficial connections.  Every New Year has a unique theme and for me, 2024 will be a momentous year for everyone. 2024 is the year of choice point for us all. It will be the year we choose which path we wish to follow personally and globally. We always have a choice no matter what else you may think, Our lives are made up of the choices we have made and our future the choices we will make. How you feel and think about yourself, others and the world affects you on an emotional and physical level and will impact you accordingly. It also contributes to the collective energy and thus it will have an impact on everyone. Your intentions and feelings, your words and actions do have an impact and they do make a difference. This coming year may have many challenges to face, which may also present some hard choices we need to make. We already are experiencing dissonance and polarization amongst our families, friends, states, and nations. The path you choose to follow be it the path of harmony, peace, and unification, or more dissonance, separation, and autocracy, will decide which world you wish to live in. You may have heard the term timeline used in the past year. But what does this mean to choose between the timelines? What I know is that we are right now coexisting on two timelines with a third one emerging. One is that of a world that learns to live in harmony with all nations and peoples, the other is one of continued chaos, suffering, war, and domination. Where you put your attention and focus is what will manifest in your life and your world. Your power lies in where you put your attention. There are many distractions in the world at the moment. The wars going on, politics, our societal infrastructure breaking down, our economy breaking down and so much more. Our attention is being pulled this way and that and you may get lost in the overwhelm of it all. Things that are very important to decide about our world and for your life, may get lost in the chaos. So it is vitally important that each of us take the time to stop, to think, and to make conscious choices that are for the betterment of all people and of course for ourselves. In the communities I choose to align with, we see the bifurcation of timelines becoming even stronger this year. What this means is a separation of the two timelines I mentioned earlier, becomes even more evident. There are the humanists who believe in the organic way of life continuing to unfold and develop, and the transhumanists who believe that machines and people must merge to survive. There are those people who think the old way of doing things can be fixed with technology and those who know it has to fall apart so that new structures and our natural organic intelligence and evolution can emerge even more strongly. The decision you choose to make will impact not only yourself but it will either add to the energy of a world that is focused on unifying all, one that supports life and nature, or one that supports a technocratic world of machines interfaced with people who can no longer think for themselves or even have choices to make. A world that is for me very dark, bleak, and dystopian.  Our very existence is at stake here. The Earth is organic and evolves just as we do. Divine Intelligence, Consciousness, or the Unified Field, or whatever you choose to call it, is everywhere and in everyone. The Earth, Gaia is also a conscious being and she is evolving into a higher vibration just as we do. You can choose to move into a higher vibration or not. Whichever you choose will determine where you live either on a 3D planet, material and dense as we are now, or a 5D planet one that is evolving into a lighter more unified state of consciousness. All versions of our planet will exist simultaneously. Those living from Christ consciousness and love will just be vibrating at a higher frequency than those that are not and so they will not be seen. What this means is that each of us has only one choice to make as we begin this new year. I say one choice because, for me, there is only one big choice that will determine which world you choose to live in and where we will put our attention. Are you ready for a world that is truly based on love and unification where with all life wherever it may be or not? A world without war, hunger, suffering, illness, or poverty, a world where all human beings have the opportunity to evolve into the Divine Human they were intended to evolve into and to use all of their divine or as some say superhuman gifts. Or do you choose whether consciously or by absentience a world that worships technology and continues to offer only pain, suffering, illness, struggle, war, death, poverty, and servitude to a small autocratic group of individuals? I invite you this year, to take all the time you need to think things through and feel into your heart, and before choosing to accept something as fact, or to go a certain way, give yourself the time to feel into the choices being presented to you. We are all at the choice point and that means that each of us has a responsibility this year to be thoughtful with all of our choices, especially with those that will determine which world we wish to create. Receive my Living Goddess Guide today. Just signup on the home page by clicking the button under the video.  I love the word 'allure'. The word itself captivates one and I find it holds the energy of its meaning. To be alluring is 1) to temp or entice; 2) the power of attraction, 3) to beguile. It could also mean that one has charisma or even the power to seduce or be seductive. When one is 'alluring' the allured is under a “spell” or so it may seem. Don’t you just love knowing that if you are a woman you have the power to beguile? In fact, that is where it all began in the mythical Garden of Eden when the Snake (symbol for sexuality) beguiled Eve to eat the apple of knowledge. The question I wish to explore here is if this is the old definition of what it means to be alluring then what could the new definition be? For centuries, we've been told that our ability to captivate men somehow contributed to the downfall of mankind. Our natural sensuality was labeled as too potent and alluring for men to handle. Consequently, the term 'allure' took on a negative connotation, cautioning us against being too sexy, enticing, or seductive. Society labeled such behavior as inappropriate, associating it only with 'bad girls' and not 'good girls.' Despite our desire to please our parents, there has always been an inner longing to explore our rebellious side. Over 30 years ago, Betty Friedan penned "The Feminine Mystique," a groundbreaking work that shook the very foundations of the feminist movement. Her words brought attention to our roles, a subject that had long been left unexamined. Though written decades ago, Friedan's ideas still resonate in our culture today. She laid bare the roles and attitudes imposed on us in the 1950s and 1960s, revealing how social standards and mores had stifled us.  The Essence of Feminine Sexuality From the time of the first woman, Lilith, we have consistently been dynamic and active partners, especially in matters of love-making. We embody Shakti, the Primal Goddess, symbolizing raw sexuality and unbridled emotions. Each of us can be fierce or gentle, untamable in our primal nature—a Wild Woman. This natural state of the feminine, fully embracing our sexual power and appetite, has historically unnerved both men and women. While it wasn't always the case, especially before the decline of the Goddess, this discomfort has persisted for the past ten thousand years. Now, the time has come for us, as women, to wholeheartedly embrace this aspect of our feminine nature—with love, wisdom, and reverence—and hold it as sacred.  The New Feminine Rising is an exciting opportunity for you as a woman to transform the way you embody and express your sexual power, allure, and essence.
This is a personal conversation delving into what it truly means to be fully in touch with your sexuality—awake, integrated, and empowered. The question of how we, as women, wield our sexual power and allure is now at the forefront. This potent force resides within our wombs, a mysterious magnetic power that draws us back to our divinity—the primal energy of the feminine. In the journey of the New Feminine Rising, the stigma around being an alluring woman is dismantled, and this timeless term is redefined. Today, being an alluring woman means maintaining a vibrant passion and embracing an erotic nature. It's about being a woman inspired by her vision, proudly wearing her womanliness without apology. She understands how to harness the power of attraction within her sacred womb. For her, sexuality is an art expressed at the right time, not a tool for manipulation. She no longer needs such tactics for survival. She is virginal unto herself, finding fulfillment and erotic satisfaction within, without relying on a man. This independence allows her to approach men without fear, embracing and loving them for who they are. She thrives in her sexual power, becoming a woman who is fulfilled on her terms. When a woman no longer needs a man to feel fulfilled she is then free to love them for being who they are. When a woman no longer relies on a man for fulfillment, she is free to love them authentically. With this newfound freedom, more and more women can stand tall, celebrating the magnificence of being a sexually potent, fully impassioned, and alive woman. The New Feminine Rising invites you to embrace this transformation as a personal journey, a celebration of her unique power and essence. With this as a guide more and more women can begin to stand tall and feel that being a sexually potent, fully impassioned, and alive woman is magnificent and something to be celebrated. You can learn how to open more to your authentic sexual power and how to redefine your erotic sense of self by joining me and other amazing women on my monthly FREE calls. Just go to my home page http://www.newfemininerising.com click the button below the video and sign up for all my free gifts. You will have the opportunity to register for the call and discover which aspects of the goddess of love and sexuality you most resonate with.  What does it mean to be discerning and how can you develop this ability?
Much of what you see or hear is not always based on fact or truth but rather on personal opinion, hearsay, or something that has been altered. Since this has become more prevalent these days, learning how to be discerning and use your critical thinking is very important. So how can you learn to develop discernment as to what you read, see, or hear in the media or social media or from friends and family? Even when you are listening to someone who is a channel and they are channeling this master or that angel, how do you know who is real or what the truth is? It seems like it has become increasingly more difficult to be able to know for sure what is Real and what is Fake. How to Develop DiscernmentI want to share a few ways that you can develop your ability to discern for yourself what is true or not. The first thing I found important was learning how to come into a state of neutrality. When you are balanced within yourself, when you feel centered, and strong like a tree rooted into the Earth, when you feel a deep connection to Source and are calm, and neutral, then discernment is easy. When you are in this state you can easily feel what is true or false to you. In a place of inner strength, you can watch, read, or hear someone and feel the vibration of the words being said. Do they lift you up, or do they cause you to feel dense energy? This is not referring to hearing about tragedies that are happening in the world, but rather it is a feeling of density or like a weight in your gut sometimes, a heaviness that just feels off.
Once you cultivate this knowing and develop trust in yourSelf, as well as trusting Source or Divine Intelligence, the Unified Field or God whatever name you choose to call that energy of pure love you will be on the way to using your discernment in your life with ease. Again, I am available for sessions by Zoom or phone if you need support in any of these things, please contact me at [email protected].  Women's sexual power has been under fire for thousands of years and the feminine soul dismembered. This has happened not only to us individually, but to us collectively. The soul of the feminine is both personal and part of the collective since what we feel about the feminine personally is what makes up the collective field. Once these ideas of the feminine are accepted by the people they become the norm. and once the male-dominator culture was in place the former world based on feminine values was replaced by the patriarchy. How Did This Happen? About 3,000 thousand years ago there was a shift in power that took place from a culture that was Mother Goddess based to one that was becoming based on a Father God. Essentially, when the male-dominator culture and the patriarchy began to overtake the world and the Judeo-Christian patriarchs purposefully crafted a new creation story. The role of women was rewritten to show that all women were subservient to men who were superior beings because they created life. The original Goddess-based creation story was one where Lilith the First Woman was partners with Adam and they were both created from the Earth. Lilith was also considered the Mother of Creation as all living beings are born of woman. It was changed to the story we have now of Lilith being cast out of Eden and becoming a demoness, Eve being born of Adam's rib and becoming his helpmate but soon to be blamed for the downfall of all humanity. The men of that time wanted power over the people. The best way to get this power was to change the stories and the mythology of the culture that they wished to control. So these men gave power to a male God, who could create life, was all-powerful, and to be feared. Gradually over time, maybe hundreds of years after each generation was born, the stories of the mother goddess and how she created life and was the source of life, were changed to fit this agenda and accepted by the people. These powerful men wanted to make sure that the Goddess no longer stood as the primary giver of all life, and that she no longer could influence the people. Women who were the physical representation of the Goddess had to also have their power and rights limited and later taken away as well. This was the beginning of the dismemberment of the collective feminine soul which is still happening even today. The feminine soul has been purposefully chipped away at by powerful men of each era, whether for political gain, or religious or economic control. The one thing that all of these men feared and many men still fear is a woman's authentic feminine power, her sexual power. Women's sexual charisma and power were just "too hot to handle". Before this era of male domination the Goddess and women were held in high esteem and men and women worked together as partners. Women's sexual power was natural and honored.  What is Authentic Feminine Power?
When I speak of a woman's authentic feminine power I am speaking about your sexual power. Women by nature of their biology have a power that men can never have. That power is to create life as well as their natural sexual charisma. Beyond these two basic issues, a woman's full sexual power includes not only the power of her sex, but the power of her intellect, her love, her courage, her wrath, her wildness, and her sovereignty. And so, to control women and limit their influence over men who could easily be distracted, a culture of misogyny and rape was created to last thousands of years. Our authentic feminine power also lies in our ability to know our bodies as sacred and holy. To reclaim our body as our own to do with as we choose, when we choose. Our power lies in knowing that we are sovereign a whole unto ourselves, and in our ability to take back our role as the sexual iniaitress. This was always the role of women to initiate men into the sacred sensual arts of love. Women were always the teachers of the arts of love because they understood the power of their shakti and sexual energy. But with the demise of the Mother Goddess as the Creatress of life, women no longer had power over their own sexuality. Reclaiming our feminine soul also means that we reclaim the story of Eve and the blame put upon all women for the downfall of humanity. Reclaiming our innocence must start with each individual. Each woman must decide for herself that she is innocent, that her body is the temple of the Goddess, and that her sex is divine. Her nature is not to serve man but to partner with him to co-create a world where women are seen once again as the emissaries of the divine feminine and men of the divine masculine. When you reclaim the innocence of your body, the sacredness of your sex, and your sovereignty, you restore the feminine back to its original state of purity and potency. You begin to reconnect with your essential feminine power and rewrite the story of Eve for all women.  I have delineated five basic aspects of the goddesses of love and sexuality. They are love and beauty, or the Goddess of Love, Sensuality and Beauty, the instinctual feminine, or the Primal Goddess, the Sexual Initiatress who encompasses both the sexual healer and sacred Courtesan. These aspects represent our sexual expression in a variety of roles. In our modern world, women are still greatly influenced by the images of women in the media that they see. We only see one or two aspects that are often very limited in how they portray women and women's sexual empowerment. Women often fear, hide, are ashamed, or exploit their sexual power. Even if they don't know that they are doing so. Very few women fully understand what their authentic feminine power is and how to use it. We don't know how to embody it. When images of the feminine are distorted to fit a particular cultural standard that has been defined by patriarchal standards of femininity, we forget what it feels like to be whole, sexually empowered and integrated with all aspects of our sexual expression. We forget how to stand strong, feel beautiful, confident, safe in our bodies and be in control of our sexual energy. What I have come to realize is that all women have all of these aspects of the goddess of love within them, and we need to integrate all of them; to learn how to be comfortable with each aspect so that we can feel whole, sovereign, and free to express all of our sexual roles and yet not be defined by them. . Embracing the Goddesses of Love in You The first thing is to begin to understand who these images of the feminine are to you personally is to take the time to find out who you most identify with. Ask yourself these questions:
For the most part, women have been forced to use their sexuality to survive. We see throughout history that women’s sexual power has been feared, her body a symbol of life and the power to create was made to seem evil, something that tempted men away from the divine. Through getting to know the various archetypes of the goddess which represent feminine sexuality and love we can begin to learn more about ourselves and our sexual expression. We can also begin to embody more of the qualities we wish to express. If you would like to become more comfortable with and integrate all of aspects of your sexual expression via these archetypes of the Goddess of Love please get my Living Goddess Guide, Redefining Your Erotic Sense of Self. You will not only recieve my guide but also my personal workbook of What's Your Sexy, Which Goddess of Love Are You. Click Below for Your Guide.
 Being a master of yourself and your life is no longer just for the few. It is no longer just for those who have ascended with or without their bodies or those who have become fully self-realized as have a few great Master Teachers or Saints.
Today it is everybody's birthright to claim their sovereignty and learn how to follow their inner guidance. This part of yourself your inner self, higher self, or superconscious self has always been a part of you. You may not have known that it was a part of yourself or that you could connect with it consciously but it has always been a part of you. To recognize your full potential as a divine human and awaken fully to all of your dormant powers and abilities is what this time of transition is about. Now more than ever if we as a people who believe in our freedom to choose, to live freely as we wish, we are being called and pushed into taking the next step in our evolution. We are being asked individually and collectively to break free of the programming we have been living with as limited humans. Rather we are divine humans here to awaken to our full potential and to begin to live as the divine beings we came here to be. Today we have a choice as to where we wish to put our attention. On our personal evolution and awakening to our true potential and self-awareness or to continue down the path of disempowerment, victimization, helplessness, and enslavement. The choice is becoming more clear with each passing day. Will you choose to live from the mastery of your pure potential as the unlimited possibility of life or continue to follow your slave self-programming and ego-mind? We all came here at this time to do one of two things. To fulfill the Divine Plan of Heaven on Earth or to continue being a slave to the old systems of control and oppression. How Do We Live as a Master of Our Life?
We all have to not just change but to transform how we think and how we feel especially how we feel through our hearts. That is where your spiritual quickening of being is optimized. We are all at a crossroads of choice as to the world we wish to create and live in. The mastery of living from the totality of your beingness is the opportunity that is being offered to you and I hope that you will join me in becoming a Master of Being. Find out more about my Ascension Coaching here.  For thousands of years, men have been defining what it means to be a woman. Men have dictated what it means to be a sexy woman and a feminine woman. Men told women what they wanted women to be and then over time put their ideas into the collective field. Now, this started many thousands of years ago during the first dawning of bronze and into the Iron Age.
It was during those times that the Great Mother Goddess began to lose her power over the people and the Hebrew, and the Christian patriarchs of the day rewrote herstory to suit their new version of a masculine God a god of war, birth, death, and rebirth. The purpose behind all of this was to gain control and power over the people. If you take away the power of creation, our sexual power, and their sovereign right to choose for themselves you control people much more easily. The secret agenda was always to diminish the power of the feminine and to empower men with toxic masculinity. The power of the feminine which is essentially the power of our life force, our sexuality, and our ability to create was so threatening that over thousands of years, new stories about male power and about the curse of being a woman were embedded in the minds and hearts of all people throughout our Western and Eastern cultures. Women were the embodiment of temptation to men their passions uncontrollable and their emotions too wild. A woman's body was a reminder to men of her sexual potency which threatened the power of the Church. The religious dogma that was taught via the distorted truth about the feminine was literally woven into the very fabric of life until it was accepted as the norm. The true power of a woman and the secret that has been kept from all of humanity but especially from women has been the power of our sexuality and the power of our body. Women have been taught by men through media of all types, educational systems and religious teachings that to be sexually powerful, aware, and sovereign was wrong. Women were taught to fear this power within themselves and to deny it in other women who dared to show that they embodied these qualities. For a woman to enjoy sex especially if you were from a good middle-class or upper-class family was not embodying the qualities of a lady. Now you might think that women today are different. You might even feel that you haven't been at the effect of these beliefs so much, but I am here to tell you that all women throughout most of the world have been affected by these doctrines. The collective field we live in today is filled with these beliefs and even though there have been legal changes in our culture many cultures still treat women as second-class citizens with little or no say about their own lives. Even in our own country, we see how easily our laws can be changed by the men who are still running the government. The time has come for women, for you and me to connect with this new vibration of the feminine and to let it rise up in us all. To find out how read Part 2 of The New Feminine Rising.  The time has come to reclaim your authentic feminine power and with this comes a new vibration of how we use this power. Today, women are still taught to use their sexuality as a commodity. To sell it or their body for material security. We are still shown that a woman's value is based on her sexual appeal to men.
Yes, some changes have occurred over the past few decades but overall things haven't really changed that much. What is needed is a radical shift from this old, tired, male dominator paradigm. So how do you rise up into this new vibration of the feminine? Below are a few suggestions on how you can begin to align more with this new vibration.
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